Aksar hum apni zindagi mein aage badhne ki koshish to karte hain, lekin kuch purani baatein, kuch log aur kuch lafz aise hote hain jo dil aur dimaag se nikalte hi nahi. Yeh cheezein dheere dheere ek bojh ban jaati hain, jiska ehsaas humein tab hota hai jab hum thakne lagte hain… bina kisi waja ke.
Aaj ek aisi hi chhoti si kahani aapke saath share kar rahe hain, jo sirf ek kahani nahi, balki zindagi ka ek gehra sabak hai.
Ek Seekh Bhari Kahani
Ek din, ek teacher ne apne student ko ek khaali bori aur aaloo ki ek tokri di aur kaha:
“Un sab logon ke baare mein socho jinhone pichhle kuch dino mein tumhare saath bura kiya ya kuch galat kaha, khaas taur par un logon ko jinhe tum maaf nahi kar pa rahe ho. Har ek ke liye ek aaloo par uska naam likho aur bori mein daal do.”
Student ko kuch naam yaad the, aur thodi der mein uski bori aaloo se bhar gayi.
Phir teacher ne kaha:
“Ab tum jahan bhi jao, ek hafta tak is bori ko apne saath le kar jao. Baad mein is par baat karenge.”
Shuru mein student ko laga ke bori le jaana koi badi baat nahi hai. Lekin kuch dino baad yeh uske liye bojh ban gayi. Use mehsoos hone laga ke har din ise uthana aur mushkil ho raha hai.
Kuch dino baad, bori ka wazan to utna hi raha, lekin andar ke aaloo sadne lage aur unse badboo aane lagi.
Ab na sirf bori le jaana mushkil tha, balki uski badboo bhi kaafi pareshan kar rahi thi.
Aakhir ek hafta khatam ho gaya. Teacher ne student ko bulaya aur poocha, “Ab batao, kya samjhe tum?”
Student bola:
“Sir, jab hum kisi ko maaf nahi karte, to hum apne saath har jagah negative jazbaat le kar ghoomte hain, bilkul in badboo wale aaloo ki tarah. Yeh jazbaat dheere dheere hum par bojh ban jaate hain.”
Teacher ne muskurate hue kaha:
“Bilkul theek. Yeh badboo usi tarah hoti hai jaise jab koi insaan bahut logon ke liye dil mein shikayat rakhta hai. To phir is bojh ko halka kaise karenge?”
Student ne poocha.
Teacher ne jawab diya:
“Humein maaf karna aur bhool jaana seekhna chahiye.”
Kisi ko maaf kar dena aisa hai jaise bori se ek aaloo nikaal dena. Tumhe un sab logon ko apne dimaag se nikaal dena chahiye jin ke liye tumhare andar jalan ya gussa hai.
Woh log tumhare dimaag mein bina kiraye ke reh rahe hote hain… aur humein pata bhi nahi chalta ke hum apni hi zindagi ko kitna mushkil bana rahe hain.
Khud Se Ek Sawaal
Ab zara khud se ek sawaal poochiye…
Kya aapke paas bhi aisi koi “bori” hai?
Kya aap bhi kuch logon ko dil mein lekar chal rahe hain… jo aapko andar hi andar thaka rahe hain?
Khud Par Nazar Daaliye
Thodi der ke liye aankhen band karke apne baare mein bhi sochiye…
Hum khud bhi to anjaane aur kabhi jaante hue bhi kitni galtiyan kar dete hain. Kai baar hum se aisi ghaltiyan ho jaati hain jinke liye Allah se maafi maangna lazmi ho jaata hai. Aur hum sab isi umeed ke saath Rab ke saamne jhukte hain ke woh humein zaroor maaf kar dega.
Lekin zara ek pal ke liye yeh bhi sochiye… kya mere andar bhi yeh jazba hai?
Kya main us shakhs ko maaf kar sakta hoon jiski galti itni badi ho ke main usse dekhna bhi pasand na karun? To fir rab se ummeed kyun rakha jayen sochen !!
Yahi asal imtihaan hai… aur yahi sabse badi baat hai.
Jab hum apni kamzoriyaan samajhne lagte hain, tab dil narm hota hai… aur dusron ko maaf karna bhi dheere dheere aasaan ho jaata hai.
Aakhri Baat
Maaf karna kisi aur par ehsaan nahi hota…
Yeh khud par kiya gaya sabse bada ehsaan hota hai.
Isliye aaj se hi apne dil ko halka karna shuru kijiye…
Apne andar maaf karne ki aadat paida kijiye…
Aur har roz khud ko maafi ka ek chhota sa tohfa dijiye.
Tabhi aapka dil sukoon mein rahega… aur aap apni zindagi ko sach mein behtar bana paayenge.