Hamari jeebh hamesha nam rehti hai, aur yeh ek gehri baat samjhati hai ki hamare alfaaz bhi naram, meethay aur asar-daar hone chahiye, na ki sukhe aur sakht. Zindagi mein aksar hum talwar ya taqat se nahi, balki apni zubaan se jeet ya haar jaate hain.
Ek mashhoor kahawat hai:
“Duniya ka sabse khatarnak hathiyar talwar nahi, balki insaan ki zubaan hoti hai.”
Isi liye kaha jata hai ki upar wale ne jeebh ko munh ke andar daanton ke beech is tarah mehfooz rakha hai jaise kisi janwar ko pinjre mein band kar diya ho, taaki woh har waqt control mein rahe.
Jeebh aur Daanton ki Kahani
Ek purani kahani hai jahan daanton ne jeebh se fakhr se kaha:
“Tum ek chhota sa gosht ka tukda ho, aur hum 32 hain, mazboot hain. Hum tumhe kabhi bhi kuchal sakte hain।”
Jeebh ne bade itminaan se jawab diya:
“Main chhoti zaroor hoon, lekin meri taqat tum sab par bhaari hai. Agar main ek galat lafz keh doon, to tum sab toot jaoge।”
Yeh kahani sirf ek misaal nahi, balki zindagi ka sach hai. Ek galat lafz rishton ko tod deta hai, aur ek meetha lafz ajnabi ko bhi apna bana deta hai.
Allama Iqbal ka Ek Khoobsurat Ishara
“Guftagu se hi insaan ka rutba badhta hai,
Aur alfaaz hi uski pehchaan bana dete hain.”
(Iqbal ke paighaam ka khulasa yeh hai ki insaan ki asli pehchaan uski zubaan aur uske alfaaz se hoti hai.)
Ek Khoobsurat Sher
“Alfaaz hi to hote hain insaan ka chehra,
Achhe ho to dil jeet lete hain, bure ho to dil tod dete hain.”
Sunna Zyada, Bolna Kam
Agar hum gaur karein to humein do kaan aur sirf ek jeebh di gayi hai. Iska matlab bilkul saaf hai ki humein zyada sunna chahiye aur kam bolna chahiye.
Rigveda ka sandesh:
“Jo vyakti meetha aur naram bolta hai, uska koi dushman nahi hota, aur use dhan aur khushnaseebi milti hai।”
Hadees se Seekh
Humein deen mein bhi isi tarah ki khoobsurat taleem milti hai. Ek mashhoor hadees ka mafhoom hai:
“Jo shakhs apne do jabdon ke darmiyan (yani zubaan) aur do taangon ke darmiyan ki zimmedari le le, main uske liye jannat ki zimmedari leta hoon.”
Yeh hadees humein yeh samjhati hai ki insaan ki kamyabi aur nakaami ka sabse bada sabab uski zubaan hoti hai. Agar zubaan control mein ho, to zindagi sanwar jaati hai, aur agar yeh be-lagaam ho jaaye, to rishton se lekar aakhirat tak nuksaan ho sakta hai.
Isliye zubaan ki hifazat sirf ek aadat nahi, balki ek ibadat hai.
Zindagi aur Business Mein Zubaan ki Ahmiyat
Chahe personal life ho ya business, zubaan ka role sabse important hota hai।
Ek entrepreneur ko apne customers ke saath trust aur relationship banane mein saalon lag jaate hain, lekin ek kadve lafz se woh sab kuch pal bhar mein toot sakta hai।
Aaj ke competitive daur mein sirf product ya service hi kaafi nahi hai, balki aapka behavior aur aapki baat karne ka andaaz hi aapki asli pehchaan hoti hai।
Is Sher ke Zariye Is Baat ko Samajhiye
“Meethi zubaan ka asar dekho zara,
Pathar dil bhi pighal jaata hai ek pal mein.”
Moral of the Article
Zindagi mein sab kuch wapas mil sakta hai, lekin nikle hue alfaaz kabhi wapas nahi aate. Isliye bolne se pehle sochiye, samajhiye aur phir kahiye.
Ek aqalmand insaan bolne se pehle sochta hai, jabki be-aqal pehle bol deta hai aur baad mein sochta hai.
Final Thought
Apni jeebh ko hamesha meethaas ka zariya banaiye, nafrat ka nahi।
“Zubaan se nikla hua lafz teer ki tarah hota hai,
Nikal jaaye to wapas nahi aata.”
Isliye hamesha koshish karein ki aapke alfaaz logon ke dilon mein jagah banayein, na ki unhe dukh pahunchayein.